March 27, 2010

We all have one!

Hey there,
Do you know that in everybody's life that there is "ONE" day's just meant for you alone, and no your gender doesn't define this day. Well that's not really true it helps but that point is really moot for what I'm getting at? I happen to of had mine earlier this past week on the twenty fourth of this month of MARCH. Hey listen I'm sure that there must be someone you know a friend or a loved one that will be having his or hers any day now because these are Every Day. I'm talking about "ONE'S" BIRTHDAY, now I'm sure you think I'm going talk about only one aspect of a birthday from how I see it. Yes I will but I want to talk mostly about all aspects of a birthday not just what I think of one. Sometimes a baby is born to people who really want a offspring and all is fine through out the whole nine months but at birth a sad thing happens, the baby that has a hopeful future and a name "Brendi" or a boy name like "Peter" is born a stillborn is hurtful for sure. You'd feel like God wasn't fair to you because you've wanted a kid, but all he maybe saying is "For now I need you in a more important business of working in a unsafe area for others right now, I'll grant you your first child after this." Then there are people who have offspring that couldn't careless for the child and God seems to let them carry on in their lives, but if they are foolish a second time of something so bad God takes them away. What my point is here really is it doesn't matter if you live you life as YOU WANT or YOU LIVE YOUR life to how God wants we have to remember he is the one who grants us all life.
Sorry if I sounded Preachy for a moment there, but I had to get a way to show both sides of how life is for everybody in how it starts, rather bad or good. I do see in many people a good upbringing & like I also shared just the opposite. I hope that I never come across as a type of person who'll never find happiness one day when my child is born. I really know I don't, but a good lot times I've felt that way from time to time. This is really about everyone having a day for themselves called a birthday there are those out there who see aging or getting older as a negative thing should look at life as a famous line from a Tom Hanks movie- you know the one I'm talking about...where he says "Mommy always said life is..."well you know the rest. Even though I may miss my chance at love for one day at least I'm full of Joy about my own B-Day, I tell everybody I know hey you should have fun with you one day that's yours I do it by telling everyone I add a extra zero after my age. I have been doing it since I was thirty I was three hundred at that said time and now it's eight years later so how old am I? oh don't forget the zero whatever you do?

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