What is the meaning of Love?

Hello All,
    With today being Valentine's Day, I know that I have let the world through this very blog know how much I love material stuff like my enjoyment of everything related to science fiction rather it's books or television series, or even science fictional movies and my utmost respect for comic book stories, mainly about superheroes....but I do like other ones as you can see if you stroll through the history of this very long set of public tales of joy and rewards. Still and I will say this upfront even though I know how to be gentle and caring with people in fact you all know that I try to put myself as the last human that deserves to understand the emotional part of God's greatest gift known as respect but it isn't because I think or know that I'm very special in HIS GOD's view of whom share their greatest hopes and failings with a  world that is broken in a lot more ways than anyone will admit out loud. I feel at the same time of writing of  these words that I can say this an know it to be so true....I have never have had a real relationship with a young person of the opposite gender, now there is NO WAY I'M GAY, I just want to converse about the understanding of  the meaning of Love? 
     Love to me is not just how much we spend our free time away from work whatever that maybe be, we all need something of a relationship outside of our immediate families to at times talk of what is making us enjoy or have frustrations with our own journey of existence. I know that a few years ago and I still am to be able working with it a set of posts about the meaning of "THE RREAL POWER OF LOVE..."  I know that in truth everyone wants to be loved by someone who has been through trails with us be it that some are bad or good at times..... We want there to be someone that can help us when we are scatterbrained lost in not having a positive sense about ourselves. Love for some people is about the joy of raising a family and sure there are those of us that want those things but we wait to long because we are not sure if we can recall that can and should show love not just on a emotional stance only, we need to first find out what love is by helping and giving of ourselves the truth that love has to be first and always respected between others....rather if we understand that by using these key components is what build our inner and outer knowledge of character. Yet to understand that LOVE isn't just about character as well as taking time to listen and hear what our friends have as light in the way of conversation is very needful in always knowing that LOVE is just as much about everyday conversations with your friend of the opposite sex as it is with that one friend that YOU have been wanting to share more than just whispering of "I LOVE YOU" or blowing them a kiss in either a crowded room or a empty one. 
       The meaning of LOVE at the end of any given day is all of these, that I have just sorta talked of right here. now understanding the inner messages of all of it means we all as  frail humans have to know to put GOD IN OUR LIVES is just one of many small or huge steps of knowing that LOVE is understanding our souls are forever intertwined by knowing REAL LOVE comes best by knowing him through his son Jesus Christ, even when there are some of us that take our whole lives asking  Who is Jesus can we truly understand that every day may bring us closer to realizing that knowing Jesus is knowing through our hearts that we understand the four letter word called and known as LOVE.